Showing posts with label WE PUT THE FUN IN DYSFUNCTIONAL. Show all posts
Showing posts with label WE PUT THE FUN IN DYSFUNCTIONAL. Show all posts

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Things are just about as bad as they can be.
My sociopath alcoholic father in law, is really showing himself.
He doesn't drink anymore so he has taken up bullying everyone around him.
As you may or may not know, if you read my side bar, NO ONE bullies me or mine.
Shortly after Todd and I were married some argument came up with the in-laws, and the old bastard raised his hand to me-I stood toe-to-toe with him and said "Do it, you will find your a$$ in jail so fast it will make your head swim." He backed off and stormed away, he found out then and there I WOULD NOT BE BULLIED.
My mom is VERY SICK, although not sick enough to be in the hospital. She has horrible nausea, diarrhea, and bleeding hemorrhoids. I told my husband earlier this week if she wasn't better, I felt like I should stay here this weekend and take care of her. My father in law told my husband, "if I was any kind of wife and mother, I would come home for the weekend and take care of them."
Plus he said that he and mother in law needed a break from watching my son, because they didn't like getting up at 5:30 every morning when my husband goes to work. We have no one else to watch him. Before my mom got sick, they regularly got up at 5:30 anyway.
Like I don't have enough to worry about, this bastard has to pull this.
I have long felt like Satan had Charles in his grip, I know now, that he does.
The more I try to live in a righteous manner the more Charles acts up. It started last week, and has continued all week long.
If you pray, please pray for this situation to be better and for Satan to release Charles from his grip.

Monday, December 15, 2008

More about Only Child

Thank you everyone who is thinking of me and for all of your comments about my last post.

I am really not suffering with it.

I have never had a relationship with my "brother" and "sister" except to see them at my grandparents during holidays when I was younger. Occasionally I would run into them at the city pool in the summer, or even at the grocery store. We would say "hi", and that was it.

I mean these people were acquaintances at best. Strangers who "allegedly" shared the same DNA at worst.

I do feel sorry for those two people now.
They were not brought up the way I was.
Their mother(Evil Jean) paraded one boyfriend after another in their face, partied hardy and LAWD only knows what else. To call EJ a 'ho and a skank would be pretty offensive, but it would be pretty accurate.

The kid's character suffered for their mother's behavior as you might expect.

I don't know how many times the girl has been married, but the last I heard it was five times.
The boy has been through at least three marriages that I know of. From when I have been around these two I do know that neither one of them can tell the truth to save their lives! I also know of instances of Fraud committed by the girl aided by her mother. She managed to stay out of jail because her victims never pressed charges, they just divorced her.

Why on God's Green Earth my mother got mixed up with this trash(Doug) is totally beyond me.
She has stated that it was rebellion against my grandparents. Why O WHY couldn't she have just stopped bathing, smoked pot and moved to Haight-Ashbury instead, like the rest of her generation? (being facetious here folks)

Oh well, if she had done that I wouldn't be here and neither would Paddycake. ;-)

Her defense and she does need one is, "I told you, I was crazy then."

The biggest mystery is why Doug's sister keeps trying to push for a relationship between Doug and me. To be perfectly honest, when Doug first moved back here from GA, in 1997 I tried to have a relationship with him. After Todd and I were in the car accident that forever changed our lives, Doug stopped calling me, my calls to him went un-returned. I guess he thought he would have to help me in some way(I did borrow his truck one afternoon-but I returned in good condition and refilled the tank) and he didn't want to be bothered.

To recap-Lost a "brother" and a "sister"-Not the least bit sad about it! I really didn't have them to begin with. If I speak to Doug(not bloody likely-10years no communication), I will convey my sympathies for EJ ruining his life, but that's it-I really hope they don't bother me.

As the tag says-SELL CRAZY SOMEPLACE ELSE, I'M ALL FULL UP HERE!